How to Get a Girl to Admit She Likes You

When you become close friends with a girl, it's
often hard to know when to take your
relationship in a romantic direction. If you'd
like to ask your friend out on a date, but aren't
sure where she stands, use these strategies to
get her to admit she likes you, too.
STEP 1
Spend as much time alone as possible, breaking
off from your bigger group of friends to spend
time talking and having fun one-on-one.
Reaffirm how much you have in common and how
supportive and trustworthy you are. Hold in-
depth conversations about your families,
backgrounds and goals for the future.
STEP 2
Steer your discussions toward romantic topics to
hear about her ideal boyfriend. Discuss past
relationships (unless you know she's had painful
breakups in her past) and the qualities she
finds most important in a guy. Notice if she
repeatedly brings you up by saying things like,
"I want him to have a sense of humor like
yours."
STEP 3
Joke around to try to elicit a romantic
confession. While you're in a playful mood,
lightly introduce the possibility of the two of
you dating. Be prepared to say you were only
kidding if she laughs about it, or says a
relationship between the two of you would never
work.
STEP 4
Ask her what she would think about you asking a
girl out and gauge her reaction. If she's visibly
jealous, ask her why she's upset. She may
confess that she prefers that you ask her on a
date instead.
STEP 5
Wait patiently for her to make the first move
if you'd rather be friends than nothing. But if
the possibility of romance is worth the risk,
have a blunt conversation with her and let her
know how you feel. Realize that your friendship
may become awkward or strained if she doesn't
feel the same way.